Designed to keep experience at the heart of every event

At The Plannerie,                                                       
is to craft elegant and personalized events that celebrate love and connection.

We aim to transform dreams into memorable realities by offering thoughtful planning, impeccable design, and unmatched attention to detail, ensuring every celebration is as unique as the story behind it.

Rooted in a commitment to hospitality and inclusion, we proudly serve all couples and communities, creating spaces where every love story is celebrated.

our mission

Meet the Planner

With a deep-rooted passion for intentional design and seamless execution, Abigail is the founder and principle planner behind The Plannerie—a Charlotte-based planning house known for curating sophisticated, timeless celebrations.

With over 5 years of experience in the wedding and event industry, her approach blends refined aesthetics with logistical precision, ensuring each event is as effortless as it is unforgettable.

Abigail's extensive knowledge of the Carolinas' most sought-after venues allow her to guide clients through the planning process with both vision and clarity.  The Plannerie believes every couple’s story deserves to be celebrated with thoughtful detail, meaningful touches, and understated elegance.

She brings a warm, composed presence to every celebration—balancing beauty with purpose and ensuring each event is a true reflection of her clients.

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Q

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A: Maple brown sugar latte, iced.

A: If I'm not working a wedding, I will be waking up slowly, making my coffee (perfecting my at-home latte), and taking a trip to the farmer's market to stock up on my favorite treats. Later, meeting up with friends for a walk or a fun drink, and then cooking at home and opening a bottle of wine. My work-life is go-go-go, so I try to slow down and take it easy on my days off!

A: I'm a sympathetic crier, so if you are crying, I'm crying. First looks, Bridal entrance, Father-Daughter dance, toasts—every wedding is different, but I have the most amazing privilege to have a front row seat to it all and it will never get old!

Q: coffee order at the moment?

Q: Perfect saturday itinerary?

Q: Favorite Moment at a wedding?

Owner + Lead planner, Abigail Okland

AND

- Abby, bride

"I can't sing her praises enough! Her attention to detail and ability to take things to the next level is unmatched." 

- Ruthie, bride

"Abigail wasn’t just my wedding planner, she was a good friend in this stressful time! Every question or frustration I had,
she gracefully handled it..." 

Abigail was easily one of the greatest things to happen
 to my husband and me over our engagement season!

- Grace, bride

a plannerie event is

Undeniably Elegant

Effortlessly Fun

& Always Classy

Events that are full of magic, thought & beauty.